Instead of Seeking Comfort in Others, I’m Finding Comfort in Myself

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I have been in many relationships — too many.

I would use them as a way to feel wanted and stable. Almost like, if I have a boyfriend, then I’m good. Then someone is always there for me.

But along my journey in life, I started to realize (or more like smacked in the face), that I lacked self-confidence. I was really unhappy…