F*ckgirls Exist, And You Might Be One
If you head over to Urban Dictionary and look up the term “fuckboy,” you’ll find definitions like:
“The guy who will tell you “you’re not like the other girls” like that’s a compliment because he doesn’t have any respect for them.”
“The guy who sends unrequested dick pics with no context to women he’s barely spoken to.”
“A boy who is a player and is only in a relationship for sex.”
“A boy who plays with girls feelings.”
I think you get the point. This kind of guy isn’t into an actual relationship — hell, he’s probably not even that into the girl he’s with. A fuckboy is into what he can get out of the relationship, most likely being sex.
I’m here to say that this way of dating if that’s what you would even call it, goes both ways. Though not as blatantly obvious and, as a woman, it can be hard not to want to smite the whole male gender — women are guilty of this kind of behavior too.
Being a sugar baby (in some cases). Dating the “nice” guy just because he’s nice. Stringing a guy along because of skills in bed. Stringing a guy along just because he makes you feel wanted. Playing games because you love the thrill. All of these are examples of using another person for one’s own needs and not taking the other person’s feelings into…
